14 years

Our sweet Ellie turned 14 this past Tuesday. 

Now, that is hard to believe!! I think I say that every year. 

She has grown so much this past year, spiritually and physically!! 

She is becoming quite the young lady, and we are so proud of her. 

We praise the Lord for this sweet daughter of ours,

and could not imagine life without her. 

I love being able to link to past posts .... which means I've been 

blogging for a while, and it is starting to pay off! So fun to look back at what I journaled,

what we were doing as a family, and how the kids have changed. 

I've printed out my first year of blogging ~2011~ and am now working on 2012. 

It means so much to have this record of our family's life. 

Lord willing, the kids will grow to appreciate it too!! 

The past year on this blog, I've made an effort at each of the kids' birthdays,

to post some baby pictures. I thought I was done with that, and as 

I was fashioning this post, Ellie reminded me that I have not done that for her!! 

I was so thankful she reminded me, and started looking back at

all the pictures I had stored on our computer of her. 

And to be honest, there are hardly any of her first year!! 

She was born way back in the day of "film",

so most of our pictures of her are in real live photo books! 

I've yet to figure out how to scan pictures, so I took samples

of her early years from what I had ..... and actually most were taken

by my brother and our family's first digital camera. Thank you John!! 

The funny thing is, we have hours and hours and hours of sweet little

baby Ellie on video ..... and doing nothing but looking sweet:) I think that's pretty

standard for the first child, isn't it? 

She's our Georgia Peach. The only evidence besides her dad and I, that the South is a part of our heritage!! 

We headed to California for the pastor

to attend seminary when she was about 3 months old, so really Ellie was a west coast

beach child (and boy has she missed that sunny place since we've moved north!!).

Drew entered the picture very quickly. I remember learning I was 

pregnant with him on Ellie's first birthday!!! I was very pregnant with him

in that third picture..... Ellie was 7 when I had our last, little Whit. 

Lots of babies in a tiny amount of time! 

..... And I have to say, the Pastor looks like he's in middle school in that first picture. 

Good grief, we were young!! Sometimes it feels like we've grown up with our kids,

and now we're just OLD!!! 

I started blogging the year Ellie turned 12, so you can check out those

parties by following the links:  13th here and 12th here. Boy, has she changed!! 

This was her 3rd birthday in the Northwest. 

She likes to keep things pretty low-keyed ..... and I sure don't complain!! 

Her celebrating extended over a number of day. 

My sweet mom had expressed a desire to send Ellie money

so she could treat a couple of friends for dinner. 

And what a fabulous birthday gift that was for a teenager!! 

She invited her closest friend from our church, along with a young woman

who mentors them, to dine at her favorite Greek Cafe. 

It sounds like they had a wonderful time, and then they headed

back to this gal's house for a sleep-over! Ellie surprisingly

requested to watch the Bourne trilogy, her most recent favorite action movies. 

So, that's what they did!! And if I understand correctly, they

watched 2 Friday night, and 1 Saturday morning while

eating waffles with ice cream on top!! 

Thank you Leah and Ashlyn for loving on Ellie so well! 

Monday brought Num Num and Papa down from Lynden. 

Num Num spoiled Ellie and took her shopping. She bought her

an adorable outfit, which I do believe Ellie wore for days in a row afterwards!! 

Papa treated us all to an Italian restaurant Monday night.

And FINALLY, Ellie's actual birthday, Tuesday morning. 

She woke to gifts, and waffles: 

That evening, we continued with our recent family tradition and

the pastor and I took Ellie out to eat all on her own. We came back

to the house to watch our favorite show "The Voice" and also a Michael Buble

concert that we had recorded..... and of course cake and ice-cream. 

I do have to mention that I was over the moon with how my cake

turned out. Partly because I selfishly wanted to make a carmel cake like

the one I used to have on special occasions with my grand-mother. 

I knew I was dreaming, especially because the cake I used to have was made

by a truly SOUTHERN cook, and the recipe was evidently top-secret. 

But I had to make a go of it. So, I simply bought 2 of Trader Joe's

boxed (yes boxed!!) vanilla bean, yellow cake mixes, bought two new commercial, round cake

pans (which I think actually made a huge difference with how the 4 layers turned out!),

and picked a Paula Deen carmel icing recipe out (on-line). 

All I can say is it was a winner, and I have established a new family tradition. Ha. 

I would have never dreamed that would actually happen! 

And the birthday group shots, the first being an attempt

for my 5-pack to smile sweetly ..... (which never happens these days),

put next to her 10th birthday, 4 years ago (she was sporting braces that year!!) 

So fun to see how they've grown:

And then the crazy pics:

Silly faces: 

If you were a fly on our wall, you might find Ellie ~ at 14 ~

doing one of these things:

She's drinking lots of coffee or tea these days (like her mama, it's a comfort thing :)

She may be in the kitchen baking (those were her gorgeous Thanksgiving pies this year!)

Her favorite sport is soccer, though she often runs with her dad. 

Her favorite pooch is Jessie. "What would life be without Jessie," she says? 

She's got a flair for fashion and make-up (and in fact chooses very tastefully!!).

She's got a love for Instagram and photography (like me!!).

She loves crafting. That middle picture was taken on her birthday.

We decided on a project, went out and bought the fabric, and came home

to craft while watching Wives and Daughters. (another one of her favorite things to do!! :) 

She is more often than not, up in her room. Alone. Painting or drawing. 

I seriously think she is one of the most talented people I know!! 

The only things I don't have a picture of her doing are reading and listening to music. 

She's an avid reader. She loves her kindle. Especially Fantasy.

Books by Shannon Hale and The Hunger Games trilogy have been her fav this year. 

Like her dad, she loves her music (especially Taylor Swift!).

Most importantly, she loves the Lord and has a heart that seeks after Him! 

The past two and a half years have been the hardest of her life.

But the Lord is using her struggles, her hormones, her longing for the sun,

to sanctify her and grow her into a lovely young woman. 

Your struggle is not over sweet Ellie, and neither is mine. 

It's a life-long process: this growing in grace. The pains are just beginning!! 

All I can say is that the Lord is going to use these

challenging, difficult, stretching years of growing-up ~

for His glory. for His good. for His kingdom. 

and for your good. 

Don't fight it sweet girl. Rest in His everlasting arms.

Pray that He will use your gifts for His purpose and for His glory. 

And that your heart will be willing to let Him use you. 

Fill your mind with things that are noble, right, pure, and lovely. 

Be thankful and present your requests to Him. 

And peace will follow.  He promises that. 

He doesn't promise that things will be easy. 

But He does promise His presence and His grace. 

He is faithful and will do what He says. 

My verse for you dear Ellie, as you begin the 15th year of your life, is from Philippians 2. 

It's one that I cherished when I was your age.

(in fact, I loved the whole book of Philippians during those years!!)

It encourages and reminds you to "work out" your salvation,

while at the SAME time it reminds you that GOD "works in you"

to accomplish "HIS good purpose."

Praise God for that. 

"Therefore, my dear friends, as you have always obeyed-

not only in my presence, but now much more in my absence -

continue to work out your salvation with fear and trembling,

for it is God who works in you to will and to act according

to his good purpose. 

Do everything without complaining or arguing, 

so that you may become blameless and pure, children of God,

without fault in a crooked and depraved generation,

in which you shine like stars in the universe

as you hold out the word of life - in order that I may boast on the day

of Christ that I did not run or labor for nothing."

Philippians 2:12-14

You are my daughter, and I love you Elisabeth Noel!! 

Happy, happy birthday.